Author Archives: Afful Nukpe Raymond

In life, some things are caught whiles others are taught. What makes life beautiful is learning from our mistakes and improving on them to make life better tomorrow. Godly advice is very important to everyone (Irrespective of your status in life).Where you are or going, someone has been there or still there. The deadly wayContinue reading “GODLY COUNSEL MATTERS IN LIFE”

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot…Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’tContinue reading “HARD TRUTH SINGLES MUST TAKE NOTE”

Before you marry, you should take time to reflect on the following: Are you ready?: You need to ask yourself if you are really ready for the highs and lows that come with being married. Are you emotionally ready? Are you ready career-wise? What about your God-given purpose? Have you pursued it far enough toContinue reading “BEFORE YOU MARRY”

1. Godliness A real woman is a woman who has accepted Jesus as Lord and Saviour and submits under His authority. A real woman is a child of God. She’s godly and righteous. A real woman is the real slay queen, one that slays in godliness, modesty, and appropriateness, not the one that exposes herContinue reading “TWENTY (20) QUALITIES OF A REAL WOMAN”

A flamboyant wedding or marriage ceremony is not guarantee for a successful marriage. Wedding or Marriage ceremony is not the marriage itself…it is only an event that ushers you into the marriage. A loan for a luxurious wedding only adds to marital tension. THEREFORE PLAN a wedding you can afford… Also, pls don’t plan andContinue reading “WISDOM FOR SINGLES PART 3”

Women take sex to their hearts. Men don’t. Most men have sex for fun with no heart connection and move to the next honey pot. But a woman feels like all her life revolves around a man after sex. This is about our primal sexual wiring and how we respond to our sexual triggers. PartContinue reading “Your PUNANI IS YOUR BARGAINING POWER”

SALT has no need to look like other Ingredients, sends out no Aroma like other Seasonings, but without it the Soup is Tasteless. Men of True Impact don’t Fight for Position, Visibility or Appearance. Their Results Speak for them not their Propaganda. You don’t need to Shout to be heard, People keep quiet to listenContinue reading “LET YOUR DEEDS SPEAK”

Stop wasting your life dear, stop wasting your life with women. What are you looking for? Settle down with one and invest in your relationship. Stop destroying your marriage with multiple women. At the end of the day, you’ll just squander your money and strength, and you may finally return home sick or dead.Side Chick,Continue reading “MAKE LIFE EASY FOR YOURSELF”

I Just replied a daughter’s message about her confusion of who to marry and thought to share it with you. I trust it will bless someone else too. Please note that who you marry determines a whole lot about the outcome of your life at the long run. It is well with you. I meanContinue reading “WHO TO MARRY”

Being with the right partner makes a relationship wonderful; a relationship is more beautiful, easier and less complicated when with the right partner. When your heart settles that you are in the right relationship, there are certain ways you tend to feel: AT EASE You feel at ease when with the right partner; that isContinue reading “7 WAYS YOU FEEL WHEN YOU FOUND THE RIGHT PARTNER”

These are some of the signs a man shows when he doesn’t love you anymore. HE STOPS COMMUNICATING When a man doesn’t love his woman anymore, he no longer sees the need to communicate with her; communication becomes a burden to him. He talks less to her, he doesn’t communicate his feelings or things thatContinue reading “TEN SIGN THAT SHOW THAT HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU AGAIN”

Don’t be tempted to think that all your problems in this world will be solved when you marry(even when you marry the right person). Until you learn to solve your own ‘problems’, marriage will just be too big a “problem” for you to solve. Don’t waste all your single days because you are waiting forContinue reading “WISDOM FOR SINGLES PART 3”

If you want your relationship to thrive, there are certain attitudes you should be on the lookout for. Check them out below You kill your relationship when your partner isn’t your priority. You kill your relationship when you fail to forgive your partner when he/she wrongs you, especially when they apologize. You kill your relationshipContinue reading “18 LITTLE THINGS YOU DO THAT KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP”

Are you a BEAUTIFUL lady ora BeautiFOOL lady? Dear lady, your true beauty is in your ESSENCE, SUBSTANCE, not your APPEARANCE. BEING GOOD is sexier than LOOKING GOOD. You can look world-class in your appearance but have a worldly attitude. It’s possible to wear an expensive Peruvian hair on an empty head. It’s possible toContinue reading “BEAUTIFUL VERSE BEAUTIFOOL”

“If you are not faithful in your relationship or during the period of dating, you won’t be faithful when you get married. You don’t change just because you got married. The ring on your finger doesn’t metaphor you into a different creature because you married” Change only comes when one admits the need for changeContinue reading “WISDOM FOR SINGLES PART 2”

●Fornication is not a norm. Even if it has become so so common, it is a great sin to God and a disservice to your body. ●Exposing sensitive parts of your body as a lady or dressing recklessly is not a big girl thing. It is foolishness and a sin in the sight of God.Continue reading “TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THESE FACTS”

Accepting someone new into your life requires an open mind and a generous spirit. No matter how compatible two people are, you and your future partner will have occasional petty grievances. They might do things that annoy you. You will have arguments. Happiness in a relationship roughly equates to how willing you are to acceptContinue reading “NEW RELATIONSHIP TIPS”

Most people will not encourage you because you are not doing it their way or what they want you to.. Encouragement should come from inside or within and that’s what motivates great achievers. When nobody else celebrate you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to otherContinue reading “CELEBRATE YOURSELF”

So many people do not understand the marriage covenant, they don’t understand the principles of God concerning marriage, they just want to get married because their friends are married. Some choose to get married because of the pressure from parents or society. Marriage is beautiful with God at the center point .”That is why aContinue reading “MARRIAGE CHECKLIST”

(I will try to explain this an easy as i can) One of the reasons why most marriages fail is because the individual involved lack the understanding of this concept. One of the reasons why most of you that wish to be married but still single is because you lack an understanding of this concept.Continue reading “THE CONCEPT OF TWO BECOMING ONE. (ONENESS)”

Are you surprised I asked you about your private part? Well, I have reason for asking you. Is it well with you there?Are you sick in your private part or you are okay there? You have two parts; which are :your public part & your private part. I am not really asking you about yourContinue reading “HOW IS YOUR PRIVATE PART?”

Dear waiting singles, manipulation is real, don’t fall for it. One thing that i have discovered recently is that when God has great plans for your life, the devil is also not sleeping. You need to be very careful, patient, and prayerful to avoid becoming its victim. Manipulation is the process of planning out usuallyContinue reading “HOW TO AVOID BEING MANIPULATED WHILE CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER”

I don’t know what you take a wife for. I don’t know the basis of the comparison. I tried to understand the reasons and I couldn’t. My brother, let me help you. Your wife gets pregnant. Go to the labour ward and you will see that many Women don’t survive. Her body nomenclature changed becauseContinue reading “DON’T COMPARE YOUR WIFE WITH THAT STRANGE WOMEN (SIDE CHICKS)”

Have you started making attempts at developing yourself to accomplish those goals?. Dr. Myles Munroe once said, you need to be so busy about your assignment to the point that God will have to interrupt you, before you even realise that you need a wife. How busy are you , with respect to the assignmentContinue reading “God’s Purpose for Marriage”

When relationship Ends, Life Goes On. YOU DESERVE BETTER No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her.YouContinue reading “Mend Your Heart!”