“If you are not faithful in your relationship or during the period of dating, you won’t be faithful when you get married. You don’t change just because you got married. The ring on your finger doesn’t metaphor you into a different creature because you married”
Change only comes when one admits the need for change and is willing to COMMIT to doing the things that ought to be done to enable the expected change to happen.
So just because you got married doesn’t automatically end the redflags you saw in the relationships.
Please let him or her commit to change during the relationship if there is an attitude/behaviour of him or her that is of great worry to you.
A word to a wise is enough
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