It is highly unlikely that people will deliberately want to attract a cheater as a partner when it comes to having a relationship. But unfortunately, we don’t always realise that some habits and traits keep drawing unpleasant people towards us. This can be a never-ending issue if it is not curbed from the beginning.
Here Are Some Traits We Should Be Aware Of:
Fear Of Being Alone: Many people look at singleness as punishment. This makes them settle for less to avoid loneliness. People with this kind of thinking tend to entertain people with bad motives in their lives. Such people will prefer to have anyone at all rather than not having a partner.
To avoid this, build self-love and self-confidence until you don’t feel the need to be validated by relationship status. A partner does not complete you, they simply add to your greatness.
Re-enacting The Past: People make the same kind of mistakes all over again by trying to choose the same kind of partner that broke their heart in the first place. Choosing the same kind of partners will keep disappointing you, why not let go of that notion and try something else?
Take a step back, analyse repeating patterns of the previous relationships, make a mental note of the causes of those failing relationships and find a way to stay off such triggers going forward.
Your Habits:9 us to the negative set of people that we don’t know about.
Why not perform a self-awareness test today? Being self-aware is a powerful trait to have. Be aware of whether you are a judgemental or insecure partner.
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