THE CONCEPT OF TWO BECOMING ONE. (ONENESS)

Uncle Ray🌲🌿

(I will try to explain this an easy as i can)

One of the reasons why most marriages fail is because the individual involved lack the understanding of this concept.

One of the reasons why most of you that wish to be married but still single is because you lack an understanding of this concept.

One of the reasons why you shouldn’t near the door of marriage yet not to talk of entering it is still that you lack understanding in this area.

Finally Some of those sweet sweet marriages you see out there and you keep wishing and praying your marriage become as successful as theirs is because the man and the woman understand the concept of two people becoming one through their vows.

The concept of two becoming one. This is deeper than most of us understand. Apostle Paul called it a mystery in Ephesians 5:32.
If you and your partner take out time to learn and practice this concept, trust me on this one, your marriage will be heaven on earth.

This principle was first established in Genesis 2:24. Adam called Eve Bone of his bone, flesh of his flash because she brought out from him and through the marriage covenant she returns back to him and they became one again as they were before she was taken out of Him.

You need help from God to truly understand and practice this concept, even Jesus knew that not everyone will be willing to accept it and what comes with it so he even encouraged those who can not, to remain single. Matthew 19:5-12.

The principle of two becoming one eliminates words like ‘My’ and ‘I’ in marriage and introduces words like ‘Ours’ and ‘Us’.

There is nothing like my car, my money, my house, i this, i that.

What you should have is, our car, our money, our house, it’s no longer about Me but about Us.

I just need someone that really needs a heaven on earth kinda marriage to catch this. When you are one flesh, everything belonging to your partner automatically belongs to you. You got to move from the realm of My to Our. This is when you will start understanding this mystery.

Some of you still fight over irrelevant things because you are still in the realm of My this, My that.
Sister move. Uncle move.

Paul said
In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church
Ephesians 5:28‭-‬29NLT

So this means if i hurt my partner i am not just hurting her i am hurting us, if i cheat, i am not just cheating on him but cheating on us, if i hit her, i am hitting us. I am breaking the bond that binds us, i am breaking the oneness. I am directly putting asunder in what God has joined together.

This is deep. I just need someone to understand this.

This concept requires you to work as a team because you are united as one. At this point, your headship as the man is not about control but love and guidance. Ma you are blessed to be a support system, your position as a helpmeet doesn’t make you a slave but a great support system.

The concept of Oneness is about bringing out the best in your partner. Seeing to their growth and success and not pulling them down. You win as one. A win for your partner is a win for the family. A promotion for your partner is a promotion for the family.

A man or woman that pulls his/her partner down lacks this understanding and should remain single.

God bless you dearest one🙏