Women take sex to their hearts. Men don’t. Most men have sex for fun with no heart connection and move to the next honey pot. But a woman feels like all her life revolves around a man after sex.
This is about our primal sexual wiring and how we respond to our sexual triggers.
Part of what a lady regrets after a relationship breaks up is surrendering her body cheaply to a man. Ask some ladies who have been there.
Deep down, the sex may have been so sweet but to a lady, it feels like her power has been taken away from her.
Some guys after having sex with a lady feel that they have CONQUERED her and can subtly or openly turn any slightest issue into insults and ghosting because they have eaten the food that they have been chasing for long.
Only a man who is committed to settling down with a lady will make the mistake of having sex with a lady and commit to loving her after the act.
When I said that your punani is your bargaining power I mean to say that you have nothing to lose when he decides to end the relationship. He will always respect you for not yielding so easily like other ladies. He will trust you. You will have the power to say your mind without being blinded by your sexual experience with him. Ladies who keep their bodies in a relationship have more power than those who don’t.
Forget what they are telling you, men respect women who respect their bodies. How you give out your body creates distrust in a man’s heart and can lead to him suspecting your moves.
Anyone arguing this has never been there. These are realities, not rhetoric.
When a man genuinely loves a lady, he respects her sexual boundaries. When he doesn’t, he makes his love revolve around getting the sex he wants or ending the relationship.
How a man responds to the issue of sex exposes his relationship priority.
Some ladies don’t have issues with having sex with their man in a relationship but, every woman wants to be sure the man is her Mr. Right and that he loves her genuinely.
By Pastor Nick
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