Have you started making attempts at developing yourself to accomplish those goals?. Dr. Myles Munroe once said, you need to be so busy about your assignment to the point that God will have to interrupt you, before you even realise that you need a wife. How busy are you , with respect to the assignment that you are spending all your time looking for a wife?
It’s unfortunate that today you find guys who mostly leisure around almost every now and then, doing nothing, and yet busily looking for a wife to help them to do nothing.🤔
Unfortunately, some young women also think that’s once their breast are up, and they have some hips, they are very prepared to marry. And as such they do not prepare themselves adequately in important areas such as developing their relationship with God, developing character, submission to Christ, etc. That’s why most women today cannot submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ; as such there is leadership battle in many homes today.
Dear young woman, how prepared are you to be of help to that man you want to marry in fulfilling God’s assignment for your lives. You said you love him ,no problem oooo, but have you asked him his vision for life? Have you ask him where he’s going? Do you see yourself involved in the kind of thing he wants to do? if yes, then you are on the right path because every wife finds her assignment in the man’s assignments
. If No, then please move slowly and reflect over these matters.
Solomon gave several reasons that companionship is good. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says: Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up.
But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
RELATIONSHIP 360 