Work on yourself first before you go for searching

It may look as if God has not been faithful to you. You have fasted for days and pray but still no better catch is approaching to ask for your hand in marriage. Take it easy dear…..

I have been a relationship coach for years and one thing I have come to know is, many singles are praying for what they are not ready for. Many Christians are spending much time to pray for marriage but they have no or little knowledge about the concept “marriage”.

Do you understand marriage?

Do you know what goes in to have a successful marriage?

Are you sure you are ready to live by the wedding vows on the alter?

Are you ready for challenges
What will you do next if God does not bless you with a child or a month after marriage your partner becomes sexually inactive?

Do you know how to balance marriage life with that of your friends and family?

Dear, there are more things for you to know before you marry, if not you will regret. When a lady want to prepare a jollof, they go to the market and get all the necessary things before they start cooking. Adequate preparation is very important in marriage. It’s a lifetime journey, so before you start blaming God, ask yourself if you are financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually fit for marriage. Stop comparing yourself with your mate. Getting married early does not mean a successful marriage so late marriage.
Work on yourself while you are single in order not to hurt yourself in marriage.

God bless you❤

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